Socialize....

Socializing, one of the fore most concerns of people when you tell them you homeschool. They ask,     " What do you do to socialize the children?"

This is my first reaction that I suppress until I walk away and they are out of earshot

 

 

I cannot blame people though, it is just a natural question to ask. A lot of the reason we send out little ones out into the world, is for them to learn how to interact with others and how to act appropriately in public situations. They only difference, I think, with homschoolers is, we would like to teach our children how to act in various situations, and to help them strengthen themselves and their values, so when they are out in the world, they have the self esteem and knowledge to handle things with grace and care, not by being thrown into the fire and learning from hurt feelings, damaged hearts, and punishments. Don't get me wrong, children learn and socialize just fine in a public school setting. I am not down grading or looking down upon those who have their children in school out side of the home, I am simply giving my side of the story.

 

 

 

This article explains things a lot better than I can, and makes it easy to understand.

Prepare

We are slowly merging into our next school year. I feel a lot more confident and sure of myself as we venture into year two of our homeschool adventure. I bought a 10 drawer organizing cart and made labels for each drawer. I will have to take pictures once I am all finished. I love organizing and sorting. It makes me feel sane and somewhat in control. Each one of my boys has their own drawer, a drawer for finished work, one for crayons, one for colored pencils and crayons, tape-glue-and scissors drawer, craft item drawer, stickers--playing cards and extra items, and a paper drawer. A place for everything and everything in its place!

I am also trying to plan out, with the boys, what we will be covering, as well as a tentative schedule. Last school year, around Valentine's Day, and a few other holidays, we studied the holiday, typed out what we learned, and made fun treats and crafts and gave them to friends and family. The boys really enjoyed doing this, so we mapped out different holidays and planned to do the same things through out the year. It is a fun way to learn and share what we learn with those we love.

I am also planning for those tough days. I came across this on Pinterest and thought I should share it and have it where I could re read it when those days surface.


"So what do you, sweet homeschool mom? When you’re on the brink of burn out and ready to call it quits?
Try this.
Take a deep breath. Go somewhere you can be alone. Fall on your knees and cry out to God. He led you to this place. Surely He can take you by the hand and guide you through these hard times.
God knows you don’t have it all together. He knows that as hard as you try, you’ll never have it all together. But listen, He didn’t call you to this life because you had it all figured out, He called you because He wanted to do a work in your life and the lives of your children. Trust Him. Let Him do His work, it will be your greatest blessing.

Heavenly Father, it’s so easy to get caught up in the busyness of life. Help us to remember to keep focused on you and to put you first in our lives and everything else will fall into place. Remind us that even those these days seem to drag on forever, the years pass by so quickly.  We must cherish the little lives you’ve entrusted us with. Though we may not say it often enough, thank you for the opportunity to homeschool our children. We know the lessons and memories will go well beyond a textbook.  Lord, please give us strength and courage to face another day. Remind us that a happy child is more important than a clean house. Thank you for loving us enough to give us new mercies each morning. In Jesus’ sweet name we pray, Amen."

Best of luck to all you homeschool parents !